It depends on who you ask. If you ask this of a current
lover she is involved with, you might hear a lot of good things. If you ask a
past friend, you might hear differently. People’s opinions are colored by
experience. Still, to answer the question, most women are easy to please and
will put up with a lot from a partner, will even overlook that time he left her
stranded along the side of the road because he was late for the game, but a
woman absolutely will not put up with coming home from work and finding a pair
of skimpy, smelly panties lying on the floor at the side of the bed and it is
not hers. Women go ballistic when men cheat.
Second chances
A woman, in most cases will give a man a second chance. For
the panties incident, she will give you the usual silent treatment, not make
you your favorite midnight snack, withhold sex and ignore you and pout around
the house for a few weeks because you have cut her pride and brought another
woman to the bed. She is disgusted with you but she is stuck, and eventually
she will let you in because she has no other way. She will give you a second
chance because it is just easier to get you to shut up than rehash your
addictions and problematic behavior over and over and tell even more lies.
Practical thinkers
Women are practical. They think of the school fees, the
medical expenses for the second pregnancy, the job she might lose if she takes
too much maternity leave, and the thought of doing it all on her own will force
her into giving him a second chance. It is not out of the goodness of her heart
that she is doing it; it is out of necessity. It is the usual sacrifice that
women make; something for something. She is managing her life and not losing a
paycheck. A woman can forgive a man and stay with him if it means that her
children will be protected – and even if the forgiveness just lasts until the
kids are eighteen years old.
Natural givers
So it is unfair to say that women are hard to please. Some
of them are because they have learned the lessons first hand. Women can see
around the bend; they know the lines, they know the excuses, and have heard the
ridiculous things men come up with when they have been caught with a finger in
the pie. Otherwise women are nurturers and natural givers.
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