It is not a pleasant
thing to write articles about infidelity and what to do about it, but if you
can save someone from making a mistake, or help someone move on, it is well
worth it. If you are currently in a relationship and your partner is acting
strange, it may be that he is feeling guilty about his actions. If the
following occurs, you have grounds to be concerned.
Signs that your
relationship is in trouble
·
Your guy
comes home late from work every night, without explaining why he is late.
Sometimes he only arrives home at midnight.
·
He calls
from work to say he is working on reports and will meet with some friends
afterwards without giving you a reasonable explanation.
·
He does
not seem very interested in what you are doing and does not miss your
attention.
·
He’s
bought mouthwash – something he has never done before – and goes out by
himself.
·
He says he
has work to do at the office and may be home as late as midnight. When you call
his office he is not there.
·
He does
not seem interested in having sex with you anymore and spends more time on his
and with his buddies.
·
He now
wants to wash his own shirts and underwear.
·
He comes
home with pornography.
·
He
downloads porn at work and has a stash of pornography you discovered in a
special folder on the internet.
·
You feel that
he has cooled towards you.
·
He claims
he has erectile dysfunction, but does not want to do anything about it.
·
He has
stopped buying you gifts.
·
He no
longer asks for your opinion.
Only you know your
partner. Is he acting unusual? It is better at this point to ask him if you are
right about your suspicions. Surely, no one wants to stay on with someone who has
lost interest, and it is better to know the truth. If he has not lost interest
in the relationship, it will do both of you good to speak to an expert to deal
with what seems to be a troubled way to live. Usually friends of the couple can
tell at a glance if something is wrong; ask your best friend what she thinks –
then trust your instinct to do what you have to do.
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