Every day we see Dr Phil with a couple on the stage taking
someone to task and more often than not, it is the guy’s fault. Dr Phil gives
the ex-lover the list. He has to do more to accept the stepdaughter he has
inherited when he married the girl’s mother; he has to take more responsibility
for his new family, he is older and has to rise above himself and behave like
an adult. All the time the wife sits like a demure little angel watching her
husband squirm in his seat. She does not show the mean little smile she would
give him if they were at home. To be sure, Dr Phil is a big lug and no one
argues with him. He is fair and gives the female in the situation her due share
of blame if she deserves it. Still, coming back to the original question, don’t
women contribute more than they are accused of?
Things women will do when jilted
·
Pick up her girlfriend, do a stake-out near his
house and follow him secretively in the car.
·
When she locates him, she loses control and
lashes out, accusing him of cheating on her. A fight ensues and she does not
care if she knocks him down with her car. Both end up getting charged and spend
the night in the slammer.
·
Go to the man’s place of employment and tell his
employer what kind of person he is and makes a big row; the man gets fired.
·
Follow him to his apartment and insist on
talking to him. Okay, men do that too, but don’t resort to telling the police
that he said he was going to kill her.
·
Turn up at the ex-lover’s engagement or wedding
ceremony and make a scene.
·
Burn or cut his clothes because she suspects
that he has a woman on the side.
·
Punish an ex-husband by withholding the kids and
not letting him see them.
·
Kidnap her kids and swoop off with them to the
motherland and not feel guilty about doing so. No one knows the plight of an
unhappy single mother with kids in a foreign country better than this writer
who was in an airport scene.
·
Hit the ex-lover with a pan on his head, and the
girlfriend too, when she breaks down his door to come and collect her goods.
·
Drum up false charges when she can’t get what
she wants.
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